
Divorce can be one of the most challenging and emotional experiences in a person’s life. If you are considering a divorce in Oklahoma, understanding the state’s divorce laws can help you navigate the process more confidently.
An experienced divorce attorney can also provide guidance and protect your rights throughout the proceedings. This blog will break down key aspects of Oklahoma divorce laws, from filing requirements to property division, child custody, and more.
Grounds for Divorce in Oklahoma
Oklahoma allows both no-fault and fault-based divorces. In a no-fault divorce, you do not need to prove wrongdoing by your spouse. The most common reason cited is “incompatibility,” meaning that the marriage is beyond repair.
However, Oklahoma also recognizes fault-based grounds for divorce, including:
Abandonment for at least one year
Adultery
Extreme cruelty
Fraudulent contract
Habitual drunkenness
Imprisonment for a felony
Insanity for at least five years
While fault-based divorces can impact certain aspects of the case, such as alimony or child custody, many couples choose a no-fault divorce because it is generally simpler and less contentious.
Residency Requirements for Divorce in Oklahoma
Before filing for divorce in Oklahoma, at least one spouse must meet the residency requirement. The petitioner (the spouse filing for divorce) must have lived in Oklahoma for at least six months before filing. Additionally, the divorce should be filed in the district court of the county where either spouse has lived for at least 30 days.
The Divorce Process in Oklahoma
1. Filing the Petition
The process begins when one spouse (the petitioner) files a Petition for Divorce in the appropriate Oklahoma district court. The other spouse (the respondent) will then receive a copy of the petition and has an opportunity to respond.
2. Waiting Period
Oklahoma has a 90-day waiting period before a divorce can be finalized if minor children are involved. For divorces without children, the process may be completed in as little as 10 days, depending on court availability and case complexity.
3. Settlement Negotiations or Court Trial
Couples may resolve divorce matters through mediation or negotiations between their attorneys. If an agreement cannot be reached, the case will go to trial, where a judge will make final decisions.
4. Finalizing the Divorce
Once all issues are settled, the court will issue a Decree of Divorce, making the dissolution of marriage official.
Division of Assets and Debts in an Oklahoma Divorce
Oklahoma follows equitable distribution laws, meaning that marital assets and debts are divided fairly, but not necessarily equally. The court considers factors such as:
Each spouse’s contributions to the marriage
The length of the marriage
The financial needs and future earning potential of each spouse
Marital property (assets acquired during the marriage) is subject to division, while separate property (owned before marriage or received as a gift/inheritance) generally remains with the original owner.
Child Custody and Support in Oklahoma
1. Child Custody
When determining child custody, Oklahoma courts prioritize the best interests of the child. Custody may be awarded as:
Joint custody: Both parents share responsibilities and decision-making.
Sole custody: One parent has primary responsibility, and the other may receive visitation rights.
Judges consider factors such as:
Each parent’s relationship with the child
The child’s preference (if they are old enough to express one)
The stability of each parent’s home environment
Any history of abuse or neglect
2. Child Support
Oklahoma law requires both parents to financially support their children. Child support is calculated based on the Oklahoma Child Support Guidelines, which consider factors such as:
Each parent’s income
The number of children involved
Medical and childcare expenses
Failure to pay child support can lead to serious legal consequences, including wage garnishment or suspension of licenses.
Spousal Support (Alimony) in Oklahoma
Alimony, or spousal support, may be awarded to one spouse based on financial need and the other spouse’s ability to pay. Factors considered include:
The length of the marriage
The financial condition of each spouse
Each spouse’s earning potential
Alimony can be temporary (during the divorce process) or permanent (in rare cases where one spouse cannot become self-sufficient).
Do You Need a Divorce Attorney?
While it is possible to file for divorce without legal representation, hiring an experienced divorce attorney can make the process smoother and help protect your rights. A lawyer can assist with:
Filing paperwork correctly to avoid delays
Negotiating fair settlements in property division and child custody
Representing you in court if the divorce is contested
Ensuring your financial interests are safeguarded
Final Thoughts
Divorce is never easy, but understanding Oklahoma’s divorce laws can help you navigate the process with greater confidence. Whether you need assistance with asset division, child custody, or spousal support, an experienced divorce attorney can guide you every step of the way.
If you are considering a divorce, Meason & Morris Law is here to help. Contact us today for a consultation to discuss your legal options and ensure your rights are protected.

Meason & Morris Law is a legal firm led by seasoned attorneys Marty Meason and Chris Morris. We provide a professional experience for all our clients, helping them navigate their legal rights. We focus on Criminal Justice Law (felonies and misdemeanors), Divorce and Family Law, Expungement and Felony Law, Probate Law and also have Trial experience. Serving Washington County, Nowata County, Osage County, Rogers County, Payne County, Pawnee County, and Kay County in Oklahoma.
Meason & Morris Law
515 Delaware Ave
Bartlesville, OK 74003
918-336-6300
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